How to Become Magnetic




Very few people are born magnetic. They have a natural charm and people are attracted towards them like bees to nectar. But we all nurse a secret desire to appear attractive to others. We want to be magnetic. There is nothing wrong in having this desire - it’s very, very normal. But how do we become magnetic? How do we develop that charm, that charisma, that pulls people towards us? Believe me or not, there are ways to make people incline towards you – I’ll share a few secrets that will make you a magnet – a magnet so powerful that people will find it impossible to resist your charms.

Secret 1  

Learn how to tell a joke:

This is a sure-shot winner. If you know how to tell a joke, how to begin it and end it with the right punch, then you will have people liking you instantly. They’d want to be in your company and will find ways to be near you. No one likes to be with grumpy, all-the-time-serious people. Everyone wants to be with people who can make them laugh. So, be that person.

Secret 2

Exude Confidence

Slumped shoulders, bent head, lethargic appearance, they are all strict no-noes. If you wish to become magnetic, always exude confidence – even if you are feeling low. Only you know you are low – why let others know? So always walk, stand, sit with confidence. Let others know that you are the one person who is never down, who is always in high spirits – they’ll become curious to know how you manage that?

Secret 3

Talk positively

I don’t like this. I don’t like that. He is so eeks. She is so ugh. The weather is pathetic. The movie is rubbish. The food is bad. If you go on talking like this, people will stay miles away from you. Always talk positively. Always speak in the affirmative. That person is amazing. That book is so wonderful. I love cooking. I enjoy baby-sitting. The weather is fine. I am for this. When you talk in this way, people will find you appealing.

Secret 4

Develop an aura

Do something different. Learn something new. Make people curious about you. Make them want to know more about you. Be imaginative. Share your thoughts, your feedback in a creative way on someone’s blog – leave a comment that makes the person think. This is an example. You may do the same with someone’s clothes, cooking, painting, or any other stuff. The purpose is to give a little and make them want more.

Secret 5

Believe that you are Unique / Let others know they are Unique

A win-win situation for everyone. First and foremost, you should have the belief that there’s no one like you. You are UNIQUE. You are SPECIAL. Then, let others know that they are unique, that they are special. Tell this to your parent, your spouse, your kids, your friends, and whoever you meet during the course of your life. The joy that they will get on knowing this will add to your persona. You will become unique for them. They will consider you special. And when this happens you are on the path to becoming a magnetic person.



-          NZ

27.5.2019



    

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