When a Woman Smiles


                                                 

Don’t be taken in by a woman’s smile - don’t rush in where angels fear to tread – because her smile has different dimensions.

To know what her smile means, you should first be able to understand the smile. There are three main types of smiles:

1.      Smile that doesn’t reach the eyes

2.      Smile without teeth being displayed

3.      Smile with teeth being displayed

When the smile doesn’t reach the eyes, it means she is cautioning you; beware, do not cross the LoC (line of control). Without using a single word, she is sending a strong message. That kind of a smile is her main weapon to warn trespassers. Next time, you see a woman whose smile doesn’t reach her eyes, stay as far away from her as possible.

When she smiles without displaying her teeth, it means you can communicate with her, from a safe distance. How safe that distance is depends on how stingy or generous her smile is. Even if you are unable to gauge that distance, go ahead and initiate a conversation.

The most confusing is when she flashes a full smile – teeth displayed in all their glory. That smile is not an invitation (many get this impression though) but a signal that she has confidence in you. Such a smile conveys immense trust and is a roadmap to developing a healthy relationship. 

Women have one more smile – the Mona Lisa smile – but that’s an enigma, a puzzle waiting to be solved.  I cannot break this code.

-          NZ

21.6.2019

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