How to Make Husband Love You More


                                         

Charity begins at home. So, if the wife wants her husband to love her more, she should start by loving him more. That’s the first step. Having said that, here are few things if the wives do, their husbands will love them more, that’s my guarantee.

Stop nagging: This should be done with immediate effect. Just by this one action the husband’s attention towards the wife will increase tenfold. Nagging makes the husband emotionally detach from the wife and the more detached he becomes the more difficult it will be for the wife to make him love her more.

Create interest in what he is interested: If he loves movies, watch with him. If he loves sports, watch with him. If he loves travelling, travel with him. If he loves reading, read with him. Whatever he enjoys, enjoy with him.

Surprise him. It’s a myth that only women love surprises. Men also love being surprised. So, do something for him that he may not be expecting. Cook biryani on a week day (normally it’s done at the weekend). Buy something for him. Don’t wait only for occasions. Make your own occasion. Money should not be used as an excuse because surprises can be given without spending a penny and women are more innovative at such things than men. So, use that skill, that quality.

Sometimes wear clothes of his choice: I have used the word sometimes because I know choice of men and women (in matters of clothes) do not match. But make an exception. Once a while, wear something that he likes (even if you dislike). He’ll love it.

Compliment him: Praise him consistently. Man’s ego is easy to manage than a woman’s ego. Show your appreciation. Tell him you are fortunate to have him as your life-partner. He may have certain qualities that is unique in him, highlight those qualities.

Don’t talk about your past: Especially if you’d been in a relationship or some Jack, Joe or Jimmy had loved you in school or college (even if you weren’t interested in Jack, Joe or Jimmy). This is one thing that a man detests more than anything else. The past is past. Bury it. Don’t think that by revealing this piece of information, you’ll be solidifying the relationship. No, it doesn’t work. So, no talking about the past.

Give him space. Don’t trespass in that space.  It’s his territory. Let him be there without disturbance. When he’ll come out of it, he’ll be rejuvenated and re-energised. This increases the chance of him noticing you more.   
Bonus Tip: Never compare anything that you do with his mother. She is at a different level. Don't aspire to reach there. 

-          NZ

26.7.2019   








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