How to Increase your Sex Appeal



One maybe handsome or beautiful and yet lack sex appeal. But one maybe plain looking and yet have oodles of it.



Sex appeal is the quality of being attractive to the opposite sex in a sensual way. No one is born with sex appeal. It’s a quality that can be developed and cultivated.



The single most important requirement is confidence. That’s the starting point. Without self-confidence, you can’t have sex appeal. Those lacking in confidence should first work on that before aspiring for sex appeal.



Red is a symbol of passion and love and sex. Wear red whenever you can.



Whatever is less in supply is more in demand – that’s the way the world works. Spend only that much time with the opposite sex that can sustain interest in the other party. Exit at a high. Create thirst for more.



Eyes can create magic. Increase your sex appeal by using your eyes to weave a magical spell on the intended target.



Be good at something. Be it sports. Be it cooking. Be it in any creative activity – writing, painting, sculpting. Or it could be singing and dancing. Or whatever. Have edge to have an edge.



Always remain cheerful, energetic and full of life. Zest will make you the best.



Be appreciative. Be generous with your compliments – but don’t overdo it. Know when and what and how much to say. Also, don’t say what the other person expects you to say. Keep the person guessing. Be unpredictable. That adds to your aura.



Be flirtatious. Women love if you flirt with them. But do not be lecherous. Women dislike lechers.



Women flirt too but they don’t do so with words; they use body language. They should make themselves more mysterious. How can they do that? By not giving a full smile – remember Mona Lisa’s smile. Till now the world is not able to figure out what it means.



Another way a woman can add to her sex appeal is by playing with her hair while talking. She can also tug at her ear lobe or twiddle with her jewellery – be it earring, necklace or ring.



Never focus on impressing. Leave an impression.   



If all this fails, don’t worry. There’s more to life than having sex appeal.  



-          NZ

25.9.2019

BN:138


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